I see the problematic nature of the term “straight-acting,” because it is an inherently homophobic/negative term.
But at the same time, I don’t think it’s fair to criticize someone for a personal preference. If you’re attracted to a certain type of guys, you just are— regardless of whether that’s intrinsic or shaped by social factors. And it’s just as wrong to attack someone for being attracted to more stereotypically masculine guys as it is to attack someone for not fitting the stereotypes of masculinity. Both are [mostly] outside the individual’s control.
That being said, feel free to disagree with me. I’m curious to know what y’all think and why you think it.